loss

 Why is loss the hardest thing to go through? Why do we have to lose friends, the people that we care about in this process? Why does it turn out that the person you trusted the most is the one that you should have been wary of more than anything in the world?

I wonder if everyone thinks about the loss of a great friend. Loss in the sense that you had to let go of the friendship due to something that happened not because of death

I had a friend who I loved talking to so much, everything was all about laughter and fun with a bit of seriousness here and there. The sad thing is that this friend took advantage of our friendship and did something I least expected. It wasn't a big deal but for some reason I can't move on from that and when I see her, I feel this overwhelming rage. I don't want her near me nor associating with the people I talk to yet we have people we share in common.

When I think about the moments we shared, I end up regretting the loss of that friendship because I do miss her. I sometimes wonder if I handled that situation badly. I can't help think to myself that maybe its my fault, the way things are between us.

However much I might regret the loss of the friendship, I don't feel any remorse in letting go of her because, I feel that, once someone wrongs you and you forgive, they might take advantage of you at some point in the future.

Maybe I just have an unforgiving nature?

Privacy

We all have something to hide from others especially the people we know. Something that may change someone's thoughts and perspective about you. But everyone is entitled to their right of privacy.

I find it extremely offensive when someone starts making it their business to try finding out what it is you don't talk about to anyone, even the people we claim to trust the most. Maybe it is not fully trust when we choose not to tell but at the same time, answers shouldn't be forced out of you.

If a person chooses not tell all their business to the world, why would it bother someone else unless they have malicious intentions? Why would some go out their way trying to figure out something that is not of their concern?

I think we should all afford each other the courtesy of leaving people their privacy, everyone has the right to choose who to show their innermost being and who not to. Is it not a shame, seeing someone try very hard to figure out someone's life yet they are not in position to neither help nor do anything about it? If I'm staying out of your business, why don't you stay out of mine?

 
 

What I don't like in Guys

 

• 'Wannabe-ism.' I think the era of 50 cent look-a-likes is long past dead. Some guys should get with the program even if they didn't get the memo.
  
• Hate it when a guy doesn't keep time. Me waiting for you doesn't imply you have far better things to do than I.
  
• Guys who decide to grow a beard but leave it unkempt. What's the use of growing something you are not going to look after.
  
• Guys who beat around the bush. If you have something to say, go right ahead and say it. I don't have time to guess neither is it there to listen to you.
  
• Scruffy looking guys who approach me when I'm way out of their league.
  
• Lack of presentation. Hate the fact that most guys don't care much about how they dress and their appearance. If girls put a lot of thought into their appearance then why don't guys do the same? Being Metro-sexual doesn't imply that you are gay.
  
• I don't like guys who show off. What they have, where they work…etc. I believe in letting your actions, success and the way you carry yourself speak for you. You don't have to tell me.
  
• Armpit hair!! Gosh, why do guys think they have to grow a thicket under their arms to prove their manliness? There's nothing more disgusting than seeing a thicket of hair under one's arms. Why don't the same rules that apply to girls about shaving work for guys?